Girl lives far away, testing whether she's worth dating

Submitted by Architect

Expert's Analysis

You're trying to figure out whether you should date her because she lives far away. There are 2 things you should've verified in your conversation:

  1. That she's very interested in you
  2. That you two are compatible

You did well with #1 by challenging what she says and not always making it easy for her to respond. Her continued positive responses makes it a strong case that she's interested in you.

You could've done better with #2. You talk about liking "challenges" but you weren't specific enough about what you meant. You should've tried figuring out specific qualities/interests about her that you like too. For example, if you're into baseball, you should've mentioned baseball.

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