Going straight for the hard questions sparked interest, but may have backfired

Submitted by morty

Expert's Analysis

You had a nice mix of playful and serious messages, but you segued between them a bit too abruptly. In this case, the swift transitions didn't hurt. She said she is "super awkward" herself, so maybe have not even been aware of it.

I think the 3 consecutive qualifier questions you asked at the start established you as someone who's not easily impressed and a bit judgmental. She responded to them well and even got her excited to get your opinion. However, it may have caused her to feel self-conscious, hence confessing to being "super awkward". This might be a sign that you should hold back on asking serious/deep questions and save them for the date.



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