Bad next-date logistics may have caused guy to ghost

Background

Met through Hinge - went on one date for 3 hours. Was great, really connected. Had aimed to make weekend plans that got interrupted by him house hunting. He apologized both times.

Goal

What to do now? Still no response.

Conversation

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Relationship Coach's Analysis

You made two main mistakes:

  1. You kept asking to meet on very short notice - the same day. He seems to be going through a busy period and probably can't be as spontaneous as you'd like like.

  2. You kept telling him not to worry about not making the date. This may cause him to not respect your schedule.

I think he's still interested in you and will probably respond eventually. However, you need to let him re initiate and don't plan the date the same day next time.

Submitted by runnergirl13