My bf and I broke up about 2 months ago and we haven't been in contact for 35 ish days now. I've taken time for myself and now that it's been a month I still want my ex back. The breakup wasn't a bad one and I never acted needy or desperate for him but I want to tell him I want him back and that I still have feelings for him now. He broke up with me because at that time he thought he wouldn't have time for me due to a busy schedule, he told me he still loves me and that I deserve someone who can take care of me and be there for me always. He cried a lot and said he truly loves me but didn't want me to always wait for him when he can't hang out with me as much. His schedule has cleared up now but during the month he never reached out to me so I don't know if that means he is completely over me. I want him to come back to me but I don't know how to let him know.
How long were you two in a relationship before the break up? Just because someone doesn't reach out it doesn't necessarily mean that they are over you but it could mean that they have been trying to. It could also mean that they've just been trying to respect your space. You'll want to come up with a good reengaging text message to get things going and then go with the flow on when you want to tell him that you want him back. I wouldnt have this be the first thing that you tell him. In an advice Session we can help you come up with what you can say for a good reengagement text.
We were together for nine months. What would some examples of a reengaging text be?
A great reengagement text is your way to jumpstart the communication between you and your ex. It will be your opportunity to reignite some sparks. I'd be happy to craft some effective reengagement texts in an advice session.
Ummm well me and this guy who goes to my school who is 3 years older den me told me the other day that he don’t want a realtion shop or anything we’re as we have been talking for 10 months and he comes over when no one is home and I really love this guy ... at the begging he was so sweet caring texting me and den all of a sudden he changed I found out today the whole time he was talking to other girls but I still want him back
Me and my bf broke up a few weeks ago and I broke up with him because I over reacted but when we broke up he said that he was loosing some feelings for me and now he won't speak to me and now all I want is him back, I was a bit controling but I didn't realize I was being controlling until after we broke up and I'd really like some help 😢
Your ex is hurt and he doesn't know if he can trust you. It is likely that he blocking you, because he doesn't want to be hurt again. For a while, you should not contact him to give him time and space to heal. Yo
Your ex is hurt and he doesn't know if he can trust you. It is likely that he blocking you, because he doesn't want to be hurt again. For a while, you should not contact him to give him time and space to heal. You should actually announce it by writing him on last, short letter, where you take responsebility for any hurt you have caused. You should also tell him that you are going to focus on working out any issues you might have had. You can find some articles about the no contact approach on our website. I would advice you to study them closely: https://relationshiphero.com/@Lior/10-reasons-why-you-shouldn-t-skip-no-contact