She left me out of the blue

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Hi This is the first time I’ve ever done anything like and me and my partner were together for 7 years, this but the situation is my ex partner lost her closest relative and now we’re roughly six months later she left me out of the blue right after we got back from an amazing weekend away. We got home and she just kept to herself that night then left me the following day saying things didn’t feel the same and she wasn’t happy. She wanted to keep my in her life even after leaving me so she could try to work things out then I find out she’s already seeing someone else. I just don’t know what to do. Knowing she’s talking to another man when I’m still in love with her breaks me apart. If anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it. Thanks Ben
Hi Ben, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. The best thing you can do right now is to focus on yourself. Not what she is doing. You shouldn't wait around for her especially if she's talking to other people right now. You'll be a more attractive prospect if you keep yourself occupied and work on improving yourself. Being too available makes it easy for her to string you along (even if she is not intentionally doing so). She needs time to figure out her own unhappiness and to work on addressing it. For now, it isn't easy but you have to give her a little time. However, your life outside of her must continue to progress as well.