6 Tips To Make a Woman Want You

By Channa

If you want women to CRAVE you, your looks alone won’t cut it. Your money won’t take you very far either. Both will turn heads, but it won’t take long for them to turn right back.

  • Are you crushing on a girl and want to get her interested in you?

  • Are you in a relationship that’s losing its spark?

  • Are you friends with your crush who you wish would want you back?

Fortunately, there’s something you can do about it. Except most men haven’t figured it out or don’t know where to start. Here’s your chance to find out how to become irresistible to women:

First, understand what exactly creates attraction.

Women, just like men, have an attraction heuristic designed by natural selection to maximize their survival and reproductive success. When men and women interact with one another, the primitive parts of their brains are looking for any signs that the other is worth pursuing. The woman’s brain will look for signals of health, status and emotional intelligence (to name a few).

Women look for attraction signals through their interactions and conversations with men.

Humor is a hallmark attraction signal. It’s enjoyable on its own but it’s also a sign of social savviness, confidence, self-awareness, creativity, and likability. And women don’t just like funny guys, they’re infatuated with them. You can be a healthy, high status man and you won’t create attraction if you don’t send the right signals.

6 Tips To Make Her Want You

1. Take initiative

Women need to see that you value your own life and you go after what you want. They are subconsciously analyzing how you fit together and your ability to prosper and survive. Initiative shows leadership; the ability to lead one's own life. It's having the willingness to get things done and taking the responsibility to achieve something. Initiative is shown through actions not through words or promises. It's about being in control but to not be controlling. A woman is turned on knowing her man can handle any situation they're thrown into and this makes her feel protected on every level. This is a sure way to elevate status by showing you can provide and protect.

Take her hand when crossing the street and walk on the outer side. Maintain a strong presence. This is demonstrating being there for her, without having to say anything at all. So, take charge!


2. Live passionately

Women are drawn to men who live passionate and curious lives, and they love a man who is fulfilled. A man with a zest for life and they ambition to achieve is sexy. You don’t need to be a famous athlete or a CEO, in fact you could be a beginner at anything, just having a dream and taking action to work towards it shines through and will instantly attract women. Seeing a man pursue his interests shows women how likely he is is to put effort into her.


3. Show vulnerability

Being able to show your vulnerability signals you’re self-aware, emotionally stable, and secure enough to express your feelings. Don’t be the cool cat who doesn’t feel anything. Having a masculine energy and allowing yourself to be vulnerable is a sign of true strength. It is a deep, and subtle sign of high status. And the openness and confidence deepens connections, which helps make women feel comfortable around you. Comfort helps build trust, and trust to sex and intimacy.

One of the most powerful ways you can be vulnerable with a woman is to share a story where you felt overwhelmed, scared or sad. Don’t make this a sob story, just share something that was difficult but doesn’t hold you back. Sharing a vulnerable moment will make women WANT to connect with you.


4. Be big, in presence

Women want a man who makes them feel safe and protected. Height and a large physique draw women in because it makes them feel that sense of security right away. But the illusion of security can quickly fade if it’s not coupled with real courage, kindness, and emotional stability. It may feel it’s unfair that physically bigger men get attention, especially because their size doesn’t mean they make women any safer. You can be “big” with your presence! An open, relaxed posture with your shoulders rolled back will create the effect. Your posture can make you appear larger and your body language can communicate to women at a glance that you’re confident. Avoid insecure body language, which normally looks like you’re physically protecting yourself - crossing your arms, hunching over, avoiding eye contact, and appearing as if you’re about to sprint to safety.

Harvard social scientist affirms that just 120 seconds of powerful posture increases testosterone (dominance hormone) about 20%, while dropping cortisol (stress hormone) ~25%. Superhero posture turns you into a superhero!


5. Be a good subtext listener

Women speak 20,000 words a day on average, and men about 7,000. That doesn’t mean men need to step their speaking game up, but it does mean they may take on the role of the listener more often. Being a good listener doesn’t mean memorizing 20k words a day. It means you’re able to understand the intent behind what women say and what emotions they’re expressing. You don’t and shouldn’t recite back what you’ve learned after listening. Simply asking a thoughtful question that shows you must’ve been listening is enough to prove it. You’ll signal to her that you’re empathetic and that you care about and are aware of how she feels.


6. Engage her other senses

Smell: Scent is a major turn on. Find a cologne that blends well with your natural body chemistry. Use moderately, do not douse yourself in it! And of course, have good hygiene or the cologne won’t have anything to work with.

Touch: Look for opportunities to establish light touch, ideally skin to skin. For example, reaching for her hand leading her in a crowd. This gets her comfortable being in contact with you and produces Oxytocin, the love molecule.

Time: It’s not sci-fi, you can actually influence how she senses time. Time slows down when we try new things. Do those things together and you’ll be a more lasting memory in her mind. The more time she feels she spent with you, the more comfortable she’ll feel around you too.


You’re in control of your behavior and so is your ability to attract the women you want. And if you need help along the way: Talk with one of our professional coaches now