Shoya




Master Coach
Shoya is one of the top performing Life, Relationship + Dating coaches on Relationship Hero's platform and one of the original coaches since the creation of the platform. The loyalty she's built amongst her clients and peers is a testament to not only her ability to maintain consistency in being efficient at what she does, but a reflection of the warmth that exists in the relationships she's built with these people. She prides herself on the trust she desires to earn from the people who she perceives are willing to be curious and take the risk in exposing their truth to her. She does not take their stories lightly, and treats them with the honor she believes they deserve. It's in her commitment to understanding why a person's story is what it is that leads to the efficiency she's been able to maintain over the many years she's been coaching. Coach Shoya's client roster is a testament to the breadth of expertise and understanding brought to each coaching relationship. From Fortune 500 CEOs and popular artists to industry sought producers, single parents, and engaged/newlywed couples, Coach Shoya has guided individuals from all walks of life through their unique relationship journeys and as a leading media contributor for Relationship Hero, Coach Shoya's insights have been featured in prominent publications like The Independent and The Buzz. Podcast appearances have further showcased Coach Shoya's expertise, providing valuable perspectives on modern dating approaches, communication, and rebuilding trust in relationships. If you're feeling lost in the world that is dating, and want to re-energize your motivation to finding your person? She's executed methods that have led many of her clients into finding their happily ever after. If you're feeling disheartened within the relationships you're in and no longer know how to resolve the conflicts that plague the dynamic you once upon a time wanted and cherished more than anything? Her communication skills can help in bridging the gaps that lead back to a path of new found love. And if life has just left you feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, and unmotivated? She has a track record of leading people back to a place where they feel excited about the future and their ability to take charge of it.
Cancellation Policy
24hr+ notice: FREE 12hr+ notice: 50% fee Short notice / no-show: 100% fee
Other Policies
Usage Expiry Policy:
- All purchased coaching time must be utilized within 90 days from the point of purchase. After this period, any unused time will expire and cannot be redeemed.
★★★★★Shoya, had amazing insights and so much empathy for my situation. She really helped me when I needed it in the moment and I definitely want to keep working with her in the future.
★★★★★I appreciated the non-judgment, which is expected in coaching but still, recognizing what attracts me in a "blocked" situation helps me more to move on and decide what suits me rather than if Shoyo dwelled on the flaws of the situation (which I know already). So I think the way Shoya behaved allows me to censure myself less and I'm sure it will help me conquer the blocks. So I'm grateful for that!
★★★★★I thought it was a scam at first, but I got so much help from my coach. She helped me to better myself in things I didn't even know I had a problem with.
★★★★★Shoya is an amazing listener. She’ll pick a sentence that I didn’t think was important, and she’ll elaborate on it and make me feel seen and heard.
★★★★★Everything about what Shoya says is highly indicative of how actively and compassionately she listens. Her presence and words have been incredibly helpful. I am grateful to have been brought her.
★★★★★Shoya please keep going on this journey of being an upgraded version of a maternal friend who constantly seeks the gain of others
★★★★★Awesome first session. I've gained a whole new perspective and set of tools to use to aide my communication issues with my wife. Thanks
★★★★★Can't say enough about Shoya. She is very knowledgeable and easy to talk to. I was very satisfied with our first meeting.
★★★★★I'm always skeptical when it comes to paying out of pocket for therapist/coaches because I do have insurance but honestly you get what you pay for, It took me months to actually pull the trigger. I regret not talking to her sooner. This is way more than just relationship counseling. You have to figure out your self, your wants and what you are willing to do for those wants and she helps you with ... YOU.... I want to send everyone to her. If I am able I will be buying sessions for my mother and boyfriend. If because there is a possible conflict because I'm a client I will 100% trust Shoya's recommendation with another coach on here.
★★★★★Being able to be open. My situation has been difficult from the start but my coach has always had empathy been a voice of reason.
★★★★★It felt nice to have someone help me organize my thoughts and come up with a plan that I feel really good about. It was also amazing to have someone talk me through my guilt and show me that I don’t deserve as much blame as I have been placing on myself.
★★★★★I loved the distinction Shoya shared between accountability and apology as well as the reminders to be balanced between addressing the other's hurt (accountability/apology) and hurtful behavior (boundary-setting). She's a wonderful coach and has brought much healing into my romantic life.
★★★★★I really found talking to Shoya helpful, made me feel instantly better and thankful. It immediately reminded me to reflect on how I affected my fiance through the situation as well as understanding my own perspective. I felt I was only going through it alone until I could share insights with Shoya and she could help me with a guide as she understood what I want to overcome. Shoya can give really good examples to help vision the issue in a deeper end as well as connect with you as family.
★★★★★I just appreciate being listened to by Shoya, she understands my thoughts and feelings and looks out for my best interest in homework she gives me. Great sessions so far!
★★★★★Incredible insights, empathy, guidance, and contextual depth
★★★★★Incredibly insightful, interesting, and helpful, as always. Shoya is my GIRL!
★★★★★Shoya is AWESOME LOL. Ground-breaking stuff today.
★★★★★Got a lot out of today. Coaching on empathy management, education Shoya-style about masculine and feminine energy, and then some diving into my particular situation itself. Thank you! <3
★★★★★Shoya does a great job and framing replies in a suitable manner to reach audiences you may not be attuned to.
★★★★★My coach Shoya at Relationship Hero was a god sent. I used your services for years and couldn’t have found a better match with my coach. She was kind, empathetic, compassionate, patient, knowledgeable and skillful. She not only has been a great listener but she gave me tools, assignments to navigate me through difficult times and struggles. I could not have made it through those times without her. The only thing is I wish you took insurance because I’d love to have more sessions ❤️ Thank you so much Shoya
★★★★★Shoya is very good, listens and understands. Very insightful and helpful
★★★★★A great counterbalance to my ongoing sessions with a clinical psychologist. My therapy sessions focus on deeper, esoteric emotional issues but with Shoya I'm focusing more on strategies to best handle specific issues in front of me.
★★★★★I have some good things to process from today and I like your practical perspective, thank you!
★★★★★Shoya is always insightful!
★★★★★I like everything, as usual. Seeing Shoya's lovely face is a comfort.
★★★★★I think what we talked about can serve me both for potential romantic relationships but also for friendships. Thank you!
★★★★★Shoya made me feel heard but also would bring me back to what our objectives were if I started getting carried away.
★★★★★Shoya helped me have a better overview of the situation and clarity on how my behavior can be perceived. She structured some great communication guidelines for me, thank you Shoya!
★★★★★That I was able to understand what I had been doing wrong and what I should be doing
★★★★★She was very understanding about my current situation and helped me identify crucial points that I never thought about.