Your conversation came off like a job interview (and not the fun kind). Focus less on knowing the facts, and more about her intellectual life (she said that's what she cared about) and prematurely start focusing on getting to know her personality. Do this by creating messages that are somewhat risky and evoke emotional value. You're not gong to learn about each other by literally when you're just exchanging facts about your lives. You need to inject your personality in your conversations more.